This from my e-mail:

I’m 22 years old. I began looking at porn on the internet when I was around 9- years- old. I have  looked at porn  since then, and I think this is a big part of why I have always had trouble with women.  I’ve never been able to have a meaningful connection with a woman.

I’ve had sex with many partners(short term dating, one-night stands) but usually I don’t continue to see them as I get bored or have a disconnect. Every woman I see, all I can think about is having sex with them and for this reason I don’t have any female  friends.

I’ve noticed over the last year,  that I have a huge craving for sex but when I do have sex, it isn’t very pleasurable. And I’m always watching pornography and masturbating. I’ve tried to quit masturbating and porn before but only lasted a week at most.

I really want to quit watching porn and masturbating so much. This is why I approached you.  I plan to not have sex, not masturbate, and not watch porn for the next few weeks to see if it will help clear my mind.

Does you have any tips or advice? I really want to develop meaningful relationships with people, especially women, but this problem is really hindering my ability to do so.

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